"The average length of a hug between two people is 3 seconds, but researchers have discovered something fantastic. When a hug lasts 20 seconds, there is a therapeutic effect on the body and mind.
The reason is that a sincere hug produces a hormone called "oxytocin", also known as the love hormone. This substance has many benefits in our physical and mental health, helps us, among other things, to relax, to feel safe and calm our fears and anxiety.
This wonderful calming is offered free of charge every time we have a person in our arms, when we cradled a child, cherish a dog or cat, we're dancing with our partner, the closer we get to someone or just hold the shoulders of a friend."
I don't remember where I picked this up. I try to attribute any quote.
I recently got a great hug. The man wrapped himself around me and hugged me hard. It almost hurt. I almost felt my breath get squeezed out. It felt great, though, because he was showing me he cared, that he loves me. I had just told him something, a story from my life that left me feeling raw, vulnerable, crazy, damaged. I cried. The more I cried, the harder he squeezed. It was great.
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